In this sermon, Greg delves into the challenging topic of marriage and divorce, drawing from Matthew 19. He emphasizes the importance of living under the authority of God's Word and addresses the misconceptions and realities surrounding marriage and divorce, both in the church and in society.

Key Points:

Marriage is Hard but Sacred:
Greg shares his personal testimony of a marriage that was on the brink of divorce but was redeemed by God's grace and his wife's determination. He acknowledges that marriage, whether good or bad, is inherently challenging due to human sinfulness and selfishness.

Misconceptions About Divorce Rates:
Contrary to popular belief, the divorce rate is closer to 25% rather than 50%. Regular church attendance and prayer with one's spouse significantly reduce the likelihood of divorce.

Biblical Foundation for Marriage:
Jesus' response to the Pharisees in Matthew 19 highlights God's original design for marriage: a lifelong union between a man and a woman. Jesus emphasizes that marriage is a spiritual union where two become one flesh, and what God has joined together should not be separated.

Cultural vs. Biblical Views:
This sermon contrasts the cultural view of marriage, which often includes divorce as an option, with the biblical view that sees marriage as a permanent covenant. Pastor Greg encourages couples to enter marriage without considering divorce as an option and to seek premarital counseling.

Marriage for Holiness, Not Happiness:
Marriage is not primarily for personal happiness but for holiness. It is a call to die to one's own agenda and to grow in Christlikeness through the relationship.

Singleness and God's Calling:
Jesus acknowledges that singleness is a valid calling for some, and those who are single should embrace it as part of God's plan for their lives.

Grace and Redemption:
For those who have experienced divorce, Greg reassures them of God's grace and love. The blood of Jesus covers all sins, including divorce, and there is no condemnation for those in Christ.

Small Group Discussion Questions:

Reflect on Personal Experiences:
How has your understanding of marriage been shaped by your personal experiences or the culture around you?
If you are married, what are some challenges you have faced, and how have you seen God's grace at work in your marriage?

Understanding Biblical Marriage:
What does it mean for two people to become "one flesh" in marriage? How does this concept challenge or affirm your current understanding of marriage?

How can we uphold the biblical view of marriage in a culture that often sees it as temporary or conditional?

Addressing Divorce:
How can the church better support those who are going through or have gone through a divorce?
What steps can couples take to strengthen their marriage and avoid divorce?

Marriage and Holiness:
In what ways can marriage be a tool for personal holiness and growth in Christlikeness?
How can couples prioritize holiness over happiness in their relationship?

Singleness and God's Plan:
How can single individuals embrace their current season of life as part of God's plan for them?

What are some ways the church can support and affirm the calling of singleness?

Grace and Redemption:
How does understanding God's grace and redemption change the way we view past mistakes or failures in relationships?

How can we extend grace to others who may have different views or experiences regarding marriage and divorce?
This sermon challenges us to align our views on marriage and divorce with God's Word, to seek holiness in our relationships, and to extend grace to ourselves and others, knowing that God's love and redemption cover all.